Zor se Bol

My attention was drawn to a news item having a heading which read like “Husband commits suicide unable to digest the sach ka Saamna” or something like that. It goes like this.

One man at his 30s had persuaded his wife to undergo lie detector test in style of sach ka saamna.Ther she was questioning at her private life relation she had etc… She even requested him not to proceed further as questions were getting personel, but the husband persuded all support love and same attitude aftershe admists to the worst truth of life. She was asked whether she had any affair before marriage or not. She replied during test she had serious affair before. Then probed further, she was asked whether she had sex before marriage and she replied ‘yes’.

The husband committed suicide the same night. The girl was pregnant with her husband’s baby at that time. What conclusion should be drawn from above story? Basic mistake is in my opinion, lack of faith and trust between two partners. Somewhere down the line, a line must be drawn. In case anybody goes on digging the grave, he will get only sorrow and no happiness. There is always a starting line and we should not go behind that line. Even if something we come to know about behind that line, we should how to deal with it, how to ignore it as this is not part of their conjugal life. Such things happen only because of over expectation and misconception about true love and marriage.

This is exactly what the thick skulls in STAR TV do not realize.  For them, Truth lies in invasion of privacy.   They could have better termed it as Privacy Ka Saamna. In one case, they asked a woman whether she had any affair.  When she said no, the STAR experts claimed she was lying all because of the holier-than-thou-polygraph machine. Further Lie Ditector machine is not 100% full proof  gurantee of thruth or lie. In senario a woman lost the game when she admitted no affair in past which left her puzzeled. Keeping an eye over other’s bedroom is not Truth.  That is the domain of a peeping Tom — not a seeker of Truth. Truth is something more than that.  If at all, we need to confront Truth, it is within us.

Finally there are many truths which can be done and it is not only about sex,past relations,unhealthy affairs,abortion etc… if show promoters were really serious about Sach Ka Saamna they would have come out with better format of questions who have kept the whole reality show cleaner & more purposeful than the exsting state. We have purposefully not disclosed the name of the person to protect his/her identity our news is based on news articles from one of the news papers (facts not Verified).