Vidya BalanVidya Balan opens up as never before to Priyanka Jain from The Man (www.theman.in). Some priceless quotes from theinterview: “Passionate is the one word you could use to describe me. Love and sex are about sharing.

Therefore, sex is a part of love. Love is not a prerequisite for intimacy. Physical attraction is. That’s the difference between sex and making love. For most women, it’s making love. And they kid themselves saying it’s just sex. For men it’s debatable. We are always trying to figure out what’s in their heads.”

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“There is no perfect person you can connect with at all levels. A guy can’t be a looker, intelligent, sensitive, the guy that
your friends and family like, a guy who likes the things you like and all that. Sometimes, if he is all that and he is available he may not have a sense of humour. May be he seems perfect on the face of it, but when you get to know him, the problems start. No two human beings are a perfect fit. That’s the joy and beauty of being in a relationship.”

“Everything is fair in love and war,” she says. “In love, there are no reasons. Rationality goes for a toss. When you truly
love someone, sometimes you become insane, you become possessive and do mad things. And when that person hurts
you, it makes you do worse. I think there was a time when I got really possessive. I can’t imagine myself asking those
questions today. I was naïve and innocent and wanted answers for everything. I wanted a call every five minutes,” she
laughs.

“Women think feelings are a female bastion and that men operate without them while men think women are too obsessed with emotions. If an ex-boyfriend is seeing someone, it’s convenient to say it must be about sex. Women want to believe that love is what they alone feel…”

“I was going through a relationship where I was being constantly pulled down. My family loves me unconditionally, my
friends are proud of the work I do. Suddenly, here was a person judging me constantly, and criticising me which is
something I couldn’t take. It was around the time when the Hey Baby thing happened, even before Kismat Connection. I think it showed. At the end of the day, I am a regular girl. When I like someone I do the regular stupid things. When I like someone I am not the actress Vidya Balan. I am just Vidya. But some people sap your confidence and your energy. Why did I let it happen? I don’t really know.”

Her character in Ishqiya, she says, has a lot of sexual aggression. Is that how she is in life? “Let’s just say that I am a
passionate person and leave it at that. Every character has something that you can identify with. The character she plays is unapologetic about her choices and will not take things lying down. That bit is like me. She is rooted and crazy in love.”

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